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| Apr 28, 2017 | Child Custody


A common perception regarding child custody cases is that a mother almost automatically receives custody of the children. Of course, while this is certainly a bit of an exaggeration, it is not too far off from the truth. Mothers often have an advantage in child custody cases, despite the fact that bias should never have any place in a court of law.

Why Do Mothers Have an Upper Hand?

Technically, the court is gender neutral, but fathers continue to face an uphill battle in child custody cases. Family law courts tend to award physical and legal custody to the parent who has taken more responsibility for a child’s upbringing. Despite the changing times, women still have more childrearing duties than fathers, which shifts favor toward them. If a mother is seen as a more prominent figure in a child’s life, a court will be reluctant to sever that bond by awarding custody to the father.

What Can You Do to Get Custody?

Fathers can tip the scales in their favor. While family law courts might naturally lean toward the mother, they must consider a child’s best interests. Here are some tips to help your case:

  • Remove your emotions from the situation: This is much easier said than done, but it is important to remain level-headed. Badmouthing your ex is not going to do you any favors in court and will not help your child. With a cool head, you can accomplish a lot more.
  • Be the best parent you can be: If you want the judge to know that you are the parent who best serves your child’s interest, you have to show it rather than say it. Be involved in your child’s activities, make sure he or she always has a room in your home, and always has your support.
  • Talk to a lawyer: If you want to strengthen your chances in your pursuit for child custody, an experienced attorney will be able to help you understand the process and ensure that you do not make any mistakes that might harm your case.

Rhode Island Child Custody Lawyers

Separating from your spouse can be a difficult experience, but nothing compares to having to fight for time to be with your children. At TJC • ESQ, we understand how important your children are to you. If you are concerned about losing custody of them in a divorce, you will need to consult with an experienced Rhode Island divorce attorney as soon as possible.

Our Rhode Island family lawyers are dedicated to working closely with you to formulate a plan that best serves the needs of your family.

Contact us today at 401-400-4254 for a consultation.


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